Lay bashfulness, that rustic virtue, by; To manly confidence thy thoughts apply. – Ovid, ‘Ars Amatoria’ I, transl. John Dryden In the previous post in this series on seductive social skills, we considered how to smoothly approach a woman, in just about any situation, to start a conversation with her. Now, before we move on…

No need is there of talking on the hand; Nor nods, nor signs, which lovers understand. But boldly next the fair your seat provide; Close as ye can to her – and side by side. Pleas’d or unpleas’d, no matter, crowding sit; For so the laws of public shows permit. – Ovid, ‘Ars Amatoria’ I,…

Before your youth with marriage is oppresst, Make choice of one who suits your humour best. And such a damsel drops not from the sky; She must be sought for with a curious eye. – Ovid, ‘Ars Amatoria’ I, transl. John Dryden Now, let’s imagine for a moment you’re out and about and looking for…